When we’d offer to help to stop her whining she’d yell at us to not touch anything. I used to think why bother asking us in the first place? Then when we got older she wouldn’t allow us to clean at all and complain all day no one helps her and that she’s a slave that does everything for everyone. Make messes then blame us for them although we were the ones to clean her mess up then she’d complain we didn’t do it right and pick on any stains or items we might’ve missed. That’s a good example of how they create these realities! Nmom would do the same with us in the house. I will spend the rest of my life avoiding her and others with this disorder. So I guess what’s left is the rest of the population avoiding these people like the plague… since I went NC I really started to pity my nmom but after reading this I pity her even more. Compared to a lot of other mental illnesses where they can be managed by the person taking responsibility and accountability and work through what’s causing these symptoms to manage them better, narcissists cannot fathom taking accountability or responsibility for anything and are most times resistant to any mental health treatment. I’m so happy narcissism is talked about more now. I’ve always known npd is a mental illness but these people are really unwell to live in a made up reality they’ve created in their head and to lash out or runaway from anyone who threatens that is something that needs serious awareness. I always wondered how they could lie so boldly and not feel embarrassment or remorse at the lies they tell but this makes so much sense.
Because in her mind the problems NEED to exist in order to validate the reality she has imagined for herself to live in. She sabotages his storage areas and turns them all into a mess that is impossible to navigate JUST so she can complain about the problems she herself has just created. The reality is that edad puts his things where they belong in storage, and everything remains accessible until nmom starts throwing her stuff on top of everything with no care or consideration to where it lands. She'd insist it was all "his junk" and that he is solely to blame. My dad would keep things in a storage area, and over time the piles would become so big nothing was accessible. Do they think their scapegoat is a slob? They'll literally invade their personal space to make a mess of everything and then complain about the mess in the scapegoat's personal space, insisting that the mess is their fault because their area is their responsibility.įor years, my nmom would harass my edad about "his junk". They'll seek to sabotage people to try and prop up their imagined reality. It's very common for narcissists to become angry when their reality is threatened. If something doesn't support their invented reality, they either lash out and reject it, or they try and twist things around to pretend that it in fact does somehow support it. And because that invented reality is more real to them than anything in reality, everything they experience MUST somehow exist to support their invented reality. A narcissist literally can't live in the same reality as everyone else. They make things up, they embellish the truth, they omit facts and context, and they do all of this to manipulate the narrative to whatever suits them.īut to the narcissist themselves it's different. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns. I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically.
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